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Monday, 25 January 2010

  • Date Outfit

    So, my brother's girlfriend gave me a cute sundress awhile ago that she never wore.  I think it's really cute, but haven't had a chance to wear it yet.  I am going on my first valentine's day date this year (I wonder how this is possible seeing as I have gone through this holiday four times with a boyfriend?) and this sundress is pretty much the only "date" outfit I have.  Since it will be in February and most likely cold (except right now it's 60°F out in mid January...) so my mom and I went shopping and drove all the way to Annapolis to go to Esprit, where she very kindly bought me a really nice black coat.  We were kind of looking for a cardigan or something, but I wanted to spring for the coat.  I couldn't find a place to set the camera to use a timer without there being a ton of sunlight so I had to do the old fashioned stand in front of a mirror technique, which resulted in a poor angle. (Stupid cluttered background!)

    (Do I look my age at all?)
    The picture, I swear, doesn't do justice to the outfit to be honest, but I didn't think it was that important.  The dress is actually a lot more above my knees, blame the angle.  I'd drop the scarf most likely (or wear the grey one that is in my dorm, atm), do something with my hair (maybe curl it with a straightener), and maybe ask my roommate to do some make up for me.  I don't think it's so bad.

Tuesday, 19 January 2010

  • If you're married or in a relationship, how did you first meet your significant other?

    Guess i should have written it when it happened?  I kind of want to write about it.  It's a long story, and nobody will really read it, but I know I will enjoy reading it later.
    Before I actually met Daniel, we had sort of half met, when he came and sat down outside with my boyfriend at the time, Seth, and my best friend Kate.  I didn't know him, nor was I introduced to him, so I never thought about it really.
    Flashback to October.  The setting, night time.  A group of friends were sitting outside on these benches right next to my dorm building.  It's a place where most of the people I know sit outside, usually smoking hookah or just talking, and people come and go through the night.  The benches are little tables with 4 seats at each edge.  the seats are made for one person, but usually there are more than four of us, so sometimes we squeeze two people into a bench.  I can't remember what was going on, but he was sitting at the edge of a seat with Becky (my friend who apparently liked him at the time), who was taking up most of the seat, so he turned outwards away from the table.  I was sitting on the bench next to him, without much room on my seat, so I turned away from the table with him, and we were both kind of isolated with each other.  We started talking, and he introduced himself and thus we became friends. 
    Days went by and every now and then we would sit outside with each other (and other people), and started to get to know each other.  I learned that he is a relationship kind of guy and a dungeon master!  Cha-ching.  Anyway, after having told a couple friends of my interest, I was in my hall with a couple people, when Jimmy just kind of slung me over his shoulder and asked people if I "belonged to them".  Much to my dismay, neither Micheal nor Justin would claim ownership, and thus I had no owner!  Half an hour or so later, my friend Kate and I went outside and Daniel was out there with a very small amount of people.  I walked over to him and said, "Man, nobody will claim ownership of me!  I feel unloved!" and he said that he would take me, so my friend Kate quickly shouted at him to get my number so he could call me and "feed me".  Anyway, she told him I had to be fed twice a day, and I follow a strict feeding schedule, so he said he'd call me the next day to go to lunch.
    The next day, HE DIDNT CALL.  Lunch time approached and I sadly went with Kate to get lunch just the two of us.  I was pretty much feeling that he probably wasn't that interested, so I didn't fret.  However, later that day I recieved a friend request from him and got excited all over again.  The day continued, and once it got to night time, Elaine and I went out to go get some chasers (we're not tanks!), and ran into Daniel on the way back, told him our plans and he said he wished he had somewhere to drink, but I sadly didn't catch it.  While four of us were quietly playing kings in one of the rooms, Elaine made me text him and invite him, but he said he was already doing something (QQ).  Becky then later texted me asking to bring tin foil and tongs, so elaine and I went up to sit outside of another hall while they smoked.  guess who was there!  Yyyeeeeaah.  So we all hung out and Becky said she had alcohol in her car, and we could all have some for free. 
    Party moves to the outside benches, and there are 56789 people out there, and for some reason I got up to challenge Daniel to a fight, and when i went to sit back down, my seat was taken!  The only one left was his lap, which I happily sat on.  So the night progresses, i'm having an awesome time forcing my mixed drink upon him since I didn't actually want it.  The party starts to break up, and eventually there are only a few people, and the hookah hose gets to me.  For some reason, he let me blow smoke into his mouth which is apparently the cool thing to do.  Our lips are so close, I figured that if he was letting me get this close to him, he wouldn't mind me getting closer, and layed a kiss on him.  Success!  5 am rolled around and it was just the two of us, and he walked me back to my room and said he'd call me tomorrow.  It was a very successful time!
    Apparently, had I not made the first move, he would have waited forever since he thought I was "out of his league" and "wouldn't be interested in him" which is stupid.

    So that is the story.  Pretty corny and uninteresting, but it is our story and i like it! =)  

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Tuesday, 12 January 2010

  • Cheating

    Last night while watching "The Secret Life of the American Teenager" (Yeah, I know it sucks but I can't help it!) one of the character's mothers told her boyfriend that she cheated on her first husband, just because she didn't want him to find out later and have him get angry.
    Daniel and I had the cheating talk awhile ago and pretty much have the same old fashioned "No kissing and up" otherwise it's over.  We also told each other in full detail about our past relationships for honesty and to get a good idea of each other.  The thing is, I left out a detail that I don't ever tell anybody.  I think I've told maybe 3 people, and I usually don't skimp on the details about my relationships.
    However, towards the end of one of my past relationships, I started to develop feelings for another guy and kissed him, while still in the other relationship, and was practically with two people at the same time, even though I had not seen the first guy in a while.
    I always stress how cheating is a terrible thing, and it would be over if i was cheated on, blah blah blah, and I feel hypocritical.  I feel like maybe I should tell Daniel because he deserves to know, even though it was a pretty small deal years ago, and I would never do that now.  I feel like he'll understand because he knows how terrible that boyfriend was to me, but I also don't want to lose his trust in any way.
    I have been told that it is not really necessary to tell him, but I just don't know.

Tuesday, 29 December 2009

  • The anxiety has worn down a lot.  No more crying.  I think I just miss Dan a lot.
    I'm excited though to at least be with my friends on new years and after that i can hang out with people a lot more and keep my mind busy.
    Christmas was fun though.  I got lots of clothes from Esprit, monies, a sudoku book, and some really nice jewelry.
    I also got a lot to eat but I haven't been hungry lately and that's really upsetting me because I usually have a huge appetite.  I ordered a regular size sub from quiznos and couldn't even finish half of it.

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